Kinsa
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Post by Kinsa on Jan 5, 2015 6:21:49 GMT -5
It's 5:17 AM right now. I accidentally woke up, rolled over, and realized dh isn't in bed. Which means, he already left to take ds to the airport to go back to college. His plane leaves in half an hour. Which means, ds snuck out of the house without me saying a proper goodbye.  I won't see him again until May, and I didn't get to say goodbye and give a send-off hug to my baby. I'm sure ds and dh thought they were being kind by not waking me up at 4:00 when they left, but I'm so sad right now. I'm complaining here instead of to them, because I don't want to upset them. |
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Post by Elliefunt - Debbie on Jan 5, 2015 6:40:13 GMT -5
Awwww, I would be sad too. I'm sorry, I know it's not the same but can you skype or Facetime him? Great big hugs!
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paliz
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Post by paliz on Jan 5, 2015 7:13:31 GMT -5
It's not silly. I'm sure they just didn't want to wake you.
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BC
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Post by BC on Jan 5, 2015 7:29:52 GMT -5
Well, that's not a silly little thing. :hug: I'd be upset too. My son leaves the house for work sometimes around 4 am, and I like to try to be awake to see him off. (And, he's not leaving for six months, just for the day!) I'm sorry ((((( HUG ))))))))) Maybe it was a hard thing fort him to tell you goodbye too. :dunno: :hug: |
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Post by Laney on Jan 5, 2015 8:08:04 GMT -5
That isn't a silly thing. I'm sad for you. |
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cshoremom
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Post by cshoremom on Jan 5, 2015 8:13:36 GMT -5
I would feel sad, too…
Hope you can talk to him soon!!!!
(((((BigHug)))))
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Post by Deleted on Jan 5, 2015 8:19:43 GMT -5
Dh did that to me one time when my parents left. They had tried to convince him to wake me up, but he was "being thoughtful. " It took me a while to get over his "thoughtfulness. " I'm sorry for you! |
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Post by Madrede3 on Jan 5, 2015 8:37:27 GMT -5
That would bother me too. I'm sorry.
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lambs
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Post by lambs on Jan 5, 2015 9:20:09 GMT -5
I'd be crying... I'm so sorry about that. Perhaps it was difficult for your son and he thought that it would be 'easier' not to SAY goodbye? Whatever the reason, I'm sure they both has your heart in mind. But yeah... I'd be sad too.
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Post by kidsandpets on Jan 5, 2015 9:44:01 GMT -5
((((BIGHUG))))
They had your heart in mind.
And you have their hearts in mind coming here to let it out instead of upsetting them.
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Post by yakky on Jan 5, 2015 9:46:15 GMT -5
I'm sorry your heart is hurting. Mine would be too! I will be praying for your first interaction with dh... I know you are trying to get your hurt and frustration out here...
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yakky
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Post by yakky on Jan 5, 2015 9:47:51 GMT -5
I'm sorry your heart is hurting. Mine would be too! I will be praying for your first interaction with dh... I know you are trying to get your hurt and frustration out here...
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justmae
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Post by justmae on Jan 5, 2015 10:10:01 GMT -5
I can see my guys doing that too. In fact, when ds1 left ahead of us for Texas he didn't see the need to say goodbye either.
Let your dh know kindly that the better way next time is to let momma say goodbye.
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Post by Januinely~me on Jan 5, 2015 10:58:10 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you didn't get to say goodbye! (((((((Kinsa)))))))
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Post by Kim on Jan 5, 2015 11:00:55 GMT -5
I'm sorry. ((((((Hugs))))
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