BC
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"For all Your goodness I will keep on singing, ten thousand reasons for my heart to find."
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Post by BC on Dec 31, 2014 14:37:34 GMT -5
What have you learned or done or changed - because of this sisterhood? Or, how have you grown as a result of this community? Thought it was fitting to take time to reminisce.  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2014 14:51:53 GMT -5
StillJulie and 2lpv and Madre have all rocked my world. In submission, grace, justice, they've changed my life. Thank you!!!
So many other people have all had impacts on my life that come up in day to day conversation.
I think the biggest thing, though, is learning to follow my own advice. I spend focused time thinking, "If someone posted this situation on the board, what would I say? Is that what I'm doing?" Game changer.
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Kinsa
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Post by Kinsa on Dec 31, 2014 15:04:48 GMT -5
I'm going to call out Lambs on this one.
I remember YEARS AGO that I got into a bit of an online tiff with her about the use of the word "retard" in reference to either doing something or calling something stupid. She maintained that it was offensive; I argued that it was innocent. She did get me thinking about it though. Out of respect for her feelings on the subject, I started to refrain from using it.
Fast forward a few years, and lo and behold, my own son is diagnosed as "mentally retarded". I had already started to discontinue use of that word just out of respect for others' feelings, but now it was personal.
And nowadays I'm always quick to correct someone when he or she uses my son's medical diagnosis in a pejorative manner. Funny how God turns things around, eh?
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Post by ericanaysha on Dec 31, 2014 15:26:15 GMT -5
I can't pinpoint one thing. I'm very thankful for the connections I've made. Some of you ladies have walked me through some very ugly and not fun things. Be it through the internet or on the phone. I SO SO SO wish we could all get together and hang out whenever we wanted. |
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Post by ericanaysha on Dec 31, 2014 15:27:24 GMT -5
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Post by Laney on Dec 31, 2014 18:34:44 GMT -5
So many ways that I can't even get them all down in a reply.
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BC
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Post by BC on Dec 31, 2014 20:08:34 GMT -5
So many ways that I can't even get them all down in a reply. Me too. And, this one is kind of frivolous, but it's what made me consider the question in the first place. I was wrapping the kids' Christmas eve PJs and was thinking about how I had/have never heard of that before coming here. And, now it's been a tradition in our home for years. Kind of cheesy at this point since the kids are older, but, well, it's become tradition, so... And, who knows, maybe my kids will do it with their kids. All b/c I learned of it here from you girls. I have to put more thought into more serious ones. |
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Post by 2lplvr on Dec 31, 2014 21:59:15 GMT -5
Erin showed me the importance of having the hard conversations instead of walking away from relationships.
BC has shown me that a quiet spirit is powerful.
Flautista has been the picture of lovingly expressing her thoughts with no anger or disrespect.
Cshore is the epitome of a servant.
So many others...I'm better because of this community of sisters
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Post by Madrede3 on Dec 31, 2014 22:22:18 GMT -5
Each one of you ladies...hold a special place in my heart.
I learned so much from each of you...what a gift that you have shared your lives here...the ups and downs...And the processing that happens in between. I feel richly blessed.
For the ladies whose lives have moved on...to be with Jesus, to help support your families, to take care of parents,nurture your children, etc....I learned from you too...that despite absence, you still belong and are truly "here." That includes MommaK.
Love you ladies...fellow mamas in the trenches of motherhood! Looking forward to 2015!
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Post by Flautista on Dec 31, 2014 22:22:25 GMT -5
That is a tough one! I first saw the thread before there had been one reply here, and I've been thinking about it ever since.
I've learned that it's okay to be real before my sisters in Christ and even more importantly, real before God because He already knows my thoughts. I can't fool Him!
I've been a mom for 30 years and I've learned that I still have a lot to learn about this mothering thing.
I've learned about grace under pressure from Tulip.
Tulip, love3c, and others have taught me to look at things from a different perspective. Sometimes all that thinking gives me a headache, but it's good for my soul.
Lamby-Susan is so humble that she doesn't understand how wise she is. I've learned much from her, especially that using the word "retard" in a derogatory manner can be painful to some. I've taught my kids that, too. Thanks Susan!
StillJulie was one of the first friends I made here. I so wish we could meet in person. Okay, I wish I could meet all of you in person. When Julie has jokingly said she's jealous when I have met others on the board I can assure her that I've felt a little twinge when others have met her. The happiness when we board sisters meet in person far outweighs any twinge.
kidsandpets has shown me how meaningful animals are in one's life (I've never really had pets) and that God can teach us things through them. I enjoy reading what you've learned from God through caring for your animals.
There were work-outside-the-home moms here who showed me that I could do the same and still have a heart for my home. Being with you helped take the sting away when DH and I realized that I needed to seek employment.
Your prayers during the 10 years since DH lost his job have kept all of us going, as well as your expressed love and concern. Typing this makes me cry because being part of a loving, caring, and godly group of women is overwhelming and such a blessing!
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Kinsa
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Post by Kinsa on Dec 31, 2014 22:28:53 GMT -5
That is a tough one! I first saw the thread before there had been one reply here, and I've been thinking about it ever since. I've learned that it's okay to be real before my sisters in Christ and even more importantly, real before God because He already knows my thoughts. I can't fool Him! I've been a mom for 30 years and I've learned that I still have a lot to learn about this mothering thing. I've learned about grace under pressure from Tulip. Tulip, love3c, and others have taught me to look at things from a different perspective. Sometimes all that thinking gives me a headache, but it's good for my soul. Lamby-Susan is so humble that she doesn't understand how wise she is. I've learned much from her, especially that using the word "retard" in a derogatory manner can be painful to some. I've taught my kids that, too. Thanks Susan! StillJulie was one of the first friends I made here. I so wish we could meet in person. Okay, I wish I could meet all of you in person. When Julie has jokingly said she's jealous when I have met others on the board I can assure her that I've felt a little twinge when others have met her. The happiness when we board sisters meet in person far outweighs any twinge.
kidsandpets has shown me how meaningful animals are in one's life (I've never really had pets) and that God can teach us things through them. I enjoy reading what you've learned from God through caring for your animals. There were work-outside-the-home moms here who showed me that I could do the same and still have a heart for my home. Being with you helped take the sting away when DH and I realized that I needed to seek employment. Your prayers during the 10 years since DH lost his job have kept all of us going, as well as your expressed love and concern. Typing this makes me cry because being part of a loving, caring, and godly group of women is overwhelming and such a blessing!
And I've met both of you! How blessed am I?!? 
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Post by Flautista on Dec 31, 2014 22:35:57 GMT -5
That is a tough one! I first saw the thread before there had been one reply here, and I've been thinking about it ever since. I've learned that it's okay to be real before my sisters in Christ and even more importantly, real before God because He already knows my thoughts. I can't fool Him! I've been a mom for 30 years and I've learned that I still have a lot to learn about this mothering thing. I've learned about grace under pressure from Tulip. Tulip, love3c, and others have taught me to look at things from a different perspective. Sometimes all that thinking gives me a headache, but it's good for my soul. Lamby-Susan is so humble that she doesn't understand how wise she is. I've learned much from her, especially that using the word "retard" in a derogatory manner can be painful to some. I've taught my kids that, too. Thanks Susan! StillJulie was one of the first friends I made here. I so wish we could meet in person. Okay, I wish I could meet all of you in person. When Julie has jokingly said she's jealous when I have met others on the board I can assure her that I've felt a little twinge when others have met her. The happiness when we board sisters meet in person far outweighs any twinge.
kidsandpets has shown me how meaningful animals are in one's life (I've never really had pets) and that God can teach us things through them. I enjoy reading what you've learned from God through caring for your animals. There were work-outside-the-home moms here who showed me that I could do the same and still have a heart for my home. Being with you helped take the sting away when DH and I realized that I needed to seek employment. Your prayers during the 10 years since DH lost his job have kept all of us going, as well as your expressed love and concern. Typing this makes me cry because being part of a loving, caring, and godly group of women is overwhelming and such a blessing!
And I've met both of you! How blessed am I?!?
As blessed as we both are to have met you, which is VERY blessed. |
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Post by bookie on Dec 31, 2014 22:48:40 GMT -5
For me, it was learning to be more patient with my kids-and being able to get a good answer to almost any mom kids.
and learn that as different as we are-we are all trying to do the same things.
And also 5sweeties (Julie) teaching me baby-wise. I had always wanted to get a baby on a schedule...older dd I had no clue what to do (hadn't found hearts either) but with younger dd it all made sense.
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cshoremom
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Post by cshoremom on Dec 31, 2014 23:38:25 GMT -5
Each and every one of you has given me "something".
More to follow!
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Post by mamamunchkin on Jan 1, 2015 0:14:36 GMT -5
I think what stands out to me most is when dh lost his job. People were here supporting me. It was so much easier to chat with you instead of people in my real life.
Also... The imaginary friend that hasturned into a real life, spend time together friend. I am blessed.
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